Just dropped the pan on mine this afternoon and it was a lot better than I thought it would be - I have 79K on the clock and this is the first service I had done to it. Unfortunately, I got the wrong filter from the auto parts store. I have the 42RLE trans and they listed the 45RFE (and I didn't double-check my build sheet

). So at least I got to see how hard it is, probably wait for a couple of months and do it again with the correct filter. Sounds pretty much like you're describing, a bit of gunk on the magnet but everything else was nice and clean.