brdkey,
If you want to wire up the fog lights to work like stock, you'll need a few parts: Multifunction headlight switch w/ fogs, a pair of headlights with fogs, either the mopar overlay harness part #05166846AA or make your own overlay harness and the correct pin connectors to tap into the TIPM(Total integrated power module) harness. If you're interested in sourcing your own parts instead of using the mopar kit (part number #82210791) I have a couple of the correct pin connectors for the TIPM harness I'd sell ya for $10 shipped. PM me if interested.
After its all installed the Jeep must go to a dealer ship so they can turn on the fog lights and link it to your VIN. My dealership did it for $54 and had it done in less than half an hour.
On another note if you want the blacked out look, all you have to do is remove the bulbs & rubber grommet from the headlight, bake it at 250 degrees Fahrenheit for 15min, remove the clear lens, remove the chrome bezel inside the headlight, paint the bezel black and re assemble the headlight.