well.. no road kill in this thread ok
*joking*
but i have a front brush guard and it mounts right where the tow hooks go.. i just bought the drawhitch front receiver that you have to remove the front bumper face to install. whenever it wrams up around here I am going to install it and then see if I can put my brush guard back on somehow.. if possible in the same location depending on how the receiver installed but if not i was thinking of getting machine shop to make some custom mount. we shall see.. i know the brush guards that are out there are not capable of handling a winch thats why i got the receiver.. if there was such a thing it would be heavy like you say like the ARB front bumper..
here is a pic of the brush guard that i got.. it just bolts on..
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good luck.. i have seen pics of your jeep and it looks nice. black/white thing going on.. if u figure anything out post.