Sorry ... didn't see the replies until today ..
News so far .... head and valves went to engineering ... valves are 100% ok ... (luckely)
Had a bit of a "shock" regarding that @#$@# number 4 injector and injector hole in the top ... when the injector came out, there was still ALOT of that hard glossy black @#$ left inside the injector hole ... the black stuff was packed ontop of the edges of the copper washer ....so it took QUITE some time to get all the black stuff out, so that the washer can come loose (little bit of acitone in the hole, helped ALOT
Then the washer came out, and THAT's where the shock came ... you know the small hole at the end, where the tip of the injector fits through? ... on the top, side of the hole, there's a piece that's chipped out!

... so no WONDER it was leaking from underneath the washer! ...and that's probably why there was so much of that black glossy stuff! All I can think, is that someone hit the injector on the side, to let it come loose, but then caused the side of the hole to chip out ... we then cut our own copper washer ... a bit wider than the original one, and we also sprayed it with copper gasket spray ... hopefully it will seal enough ...
SOOoo ....the head is back on, the new rockers installed, and the top cover is back on..
Only thing left now, is the water pipes and electric connectors, then timing, then the cambelt, then the fan belt, and HOPEFULLY it will start then ...
We are planning to use a fuel pump, to "prime" the fuel lines and that will hopefully help to get rid of any air in the fuel system ... quick question ... can I just prime the fuel until the diesel filter is filled up, or must the pipe from the diesel filter, to the high pressure pump also be primed??