First of all thanks for all the info and offered help during this project.
I've tried to document all the issues I had to add to the LOST knowledge database to help future generations (sounds kind of corny doesn't it?)
This project has so far done the following: added trailer hitch, added ASFIR engine and fuel tank skids, flipped spare tire and replaced stripped oil plug with Fumoto drain
Still to be done: GDE Eco tune and trans tune (due this weekend) and install middle ASFIR skid plate (awaiting rivnut/nutsert/blind insert arrival next week)
Before pictures:


1. Trailer hitch: located 2002 Liberty with MOPAR hitch in local salvage yard (with nice triple ball!) for $90


Total investment of $110 for hitch, spray paint and sanding pads, it almost looks new! (also included wire harness and bolts)
However, pax side fwd bolt hole is right above exhaust pipe and was very rusty/dirty and it had to be cleaned before bolt install, I ended up putting a rachet strap through the wheel and pulling the exhaust pipe to the side enough that I could get to it with little effort. Notice in the picture below that the skid and hitch are hitting at the aft corners.
2. ASFIR fuel tank skid: directions are lacking, and no skid to vehicle hardware is supplied, also unlike MOPAR skid, this one only uses the two front holes on each side. Wasn't sure whether to put in under or over the hitch, so went with the same install as the MOPAR hitch and put it under the hitch. Holes did not line up perfectly, so make sure you leave all the fasteners loose until all the main bolts are installed.


To be continued: