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If you're thinking about towing - check out some of Danoid's posts on his trailer - that normally answers any questions.
http://www.lostjeeps.com/forum/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?p=348689#348689
The only mod you really need to do quickly is something for the CCV -it's dumping oil into the intake manifold - (check EHM or Provent) - anything else can wait.
The performance module is a great idea - but you need a lift pump and EGT gauge 1st - you don't want to melt things.
The 3" exhaust would probably be pretty impressive - but I don't think anyone makes it off the shelf - so you're looking at custom - actually just getting rid of the 2" stock muffler and getting a 2 1/2 (or even a straight pipe) makes a significant difference.
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