My opinion only:
1) I am, personally, virtually certain the mechanic did NOT "check" the timing belt in fact my personal bet is the mechanic doesn't have a clue where the timing belt on a CRD is located to check it. I've got a decent 6-pack to wager that the mechanic looked at the visible serpentine belt, assumed for no particular reason, it was the timing belt and said it looks fine; not a bad thing but not on point (in fairness there are vehicles that have a TB that can be visually inspected). To inspect the CRD timing belt requires 1) removal of the serpentine belt, 2) removal or at least lifting of the fan shroud, 3) removal of the fan, 4) removal of a number of pulleys and such, and 5) removal of the 17 bolts that hold the front timing cover and removal of that cover. See
http://colorado4wheel.com/content/KJ_TB.html for an idea of the process. Only then can you see the timing belt and anyone that is that far into the engine should AT LEAST replace the TB before backing out. The CRD engine is an "interference"engine which means that when it gets out of time (bad TB install, failed TB, stretched TB skips a couple of cam teeth) the pistons and valves WILL attempt to occupy the same physical space. If you are lucky the designed failure mode will occur and you will only have 16 X $68 pieces of the valve assembly to replace if you are not lucky it's more expensive. You need to trace back the ownership history of this vehicle to determine if the TB was replaced at 100,000 miles; that's the recommended interval although a few have been lucky and not had a failure past that point. Unless you are absolutely positive the TB has been replaced (certainly a prior owner could have done it somewhat before or after 100K) at a known point in time then you or a competent mechanic, another issue, need to dig into the engine as noted above in which case IMHO once you are in that far replace the TB anyway.
2) if you have the metal glow plug kit I'd install it as there have been ceramic glow plug failures that have caused engine damage (in fact I'm looking at doing so myself) but as noted be sure not to hook the metal plugs to power prior to the requried ECU flash or a GDE flash that includes the new glow plug power.
3) cannot help you with this other than I'd wait to see if it goes away with new hoses per #4, if not maybe a new MAF sensor? but best get input from others on this.
4) if your current hoses are mushy and wet with oil it's a good investment to just replace even if they haven't yet failed which is what I did.
5) no need to just replace, although you may want to have a replacement on hand, as it's easy enough to check the bottom end see the above link, scroll to the end, to see the failure mode of this hose.