Others may differ or know more than me so I'm sure you will get other opinions.
1. as far as I know the towing "pkg" was just the hitch and wiring including an adaptor to go from the factory round plug to the common flat one. Whether or not that wiring includes the wire needed for electric brakes I don't know but am inclined to doubt it. Getting a quality hitch installed with basic wiring should not be that big a deal although I will note some forum members are fond of equalizing hitchs about which I know less than nothing.
2. if I was going to tow a lot of miles and a fairly heavy load I'd go for extra tranny cooling and some kind of trailer brakes whether surge or electric I'll leave to those that know more. I can say that pulling 2,000-2,500 lbs behind a fully loaded CRD on I-10 from AZ to Tally we had no cooling issues and stopping was acceptable although one did have to pay a bit more than normal attention to surrounding traffic in like El Paso and irrational traffic stops.
3. GDE tune, check their site and maybe call Keith for advice as to which one, would be highly recommended. FYI on the above trip - Stock 2006 CRD with GDE EcoTune and TCM tune and original OEM torque convertor we got a corrected 21.5 mpg.
Seehttp://www.lostjeeps.com/forum/phpBB ... 21#p739421 for discussion.
4. I'd spend money 1st on the GDE tune before paying for a Provent which in any case I'm not running. With the GDE tune and Samco CAC hoses I'm not convinced of the benefit.
5. Don't trust a previous owner, without documentation, to have run the correct fluids (ATF+4, HOAT antifreeze, or recommended oil) figure on a good flushing of all those systems and use the recommended fluids. Failure to do so can and has caused issues. I'd recommend oil and filter change intervals of ca. 6,000 miles and do yourself the favor of getting a Fumoto oil drain valve to make it easy.
6. Don't worry about the transfer case as it's pretty solid but you will likely need to plan on a torque convertor upgrade (NOTE "hotter" GDE tunes make this a necessity) sometime down the road. Lots of chat Euro vs. SunCoast vs. other options. I went SunCoast just because they are only 3 hrs away and did the install.
When buying used be aware that a timing belt replacement is CRITICAL at or very near 100,000 miles as timing belt failure takes valves and lifters with it adding several days and some $700 in parts alone to the job. Replacing a timing belt is a tedious DIY job but certainly doable with the right tools, rent from GDE, and taking your time to follow instructions or if you are luck having the assistance of a nearby member who has done the job. Bottom line if you are buying a CRD with over 100k miles require proof that the TB job has in fact been done do not under any circumstances fall for the not uncommon lines of 1) don't worry about it my mechanic checked the TB and it's fine (you physically cannot check the TB without getting into the engine so far that it's only another hour so to just change the darn thing) or 2) the really big I don't know what I'm talking about statement that you don't need to worry about it because the engine has a timing chain.