Several things:
1. 3/4 on the gauge is not "too" hot but under normal circumstances (i.e. other than towing a heavy load in too high a gear uphill in hot temps) you shouldn't get that high.
2. as ATXKJ the temp gauge does provide decent readings but as with all modern vehicles I've seen it's not marked in degrees. NOTE - the readings ATXKJ posted are for a correctly calibrated CRD temp gauge. It's not impossible that you have a temp gauge calibrated for the gasser, see
http://www.greendieselengineering.com/f ... st/19.page in which case you can see 3/4 readings pulling 2,000 lbs of boat with the AC on on a dead flat N. Florida road, been there done that. There are only 2 ways I know of to find out if you have a miscalibrated gauge a) go to the dealer with a copy of the TSB (if you want a copy email me) and DEMAND they check the calibration (that's what I had to do including noting I'd pay for the 15 minutes of labor if the gauge was not miscalibrated - I did not have to pay but I do hate service writers) or b) spend $10-20 to get an IR temp gun and when you hit 3/4 take a temp reading on the tstat housing (that reading should approximate the gauge reading).
3. it's not impossible your temp sending unit (back of tstat housing) has an issue but it has no moving parts so that's unlikely but not impossible. IR temp check will help determine this.
4. Hayden clutch should start to engage at an air temp off the radiator (e.g. stuff in front of the engine) of 170 F or about 30 F below actual engine temp which is right at the beginning of a heat rise and well before a function OEM clutch starting to engage at ca. 195F air temp. Put the Hayden on and drive; if your temp gauge doesn't get to slightly left of dead vertical you will likely see a 10% mpg hit and need a new tstat (NOTE 80+F with AC on may mask a failing tstat but cooler weather and less load on the engine won't). See CRD Tech section for handy 2 piece fan shroud mod that makes access easier.
5. HOAT antifreeze has at most just a slight orange tint when in a clear or translucent plastic jug. If it has any other or more color it's not HOAT. When in doubt assume it's not HOAT. The lower radiator hose is below the radiator drain so it's hard to do a complete drain. Best bet is 4-6 drain/fill with demineralized water/run engine for 3-4 minutes/repeat until drained fluid comes reasonably clear. See
viewtopic.php?f=98&t=56398 for handy drain tool. To drain and refill a) on cold engine open coolant tank cap; b) open lower radiator drain plug; c) wait until coolant tank drains then open valve on top passenger side of radiator; d) when done draining close lower radiator drain plug; e) refill from coolant tank until fluid comes out of that upper valve; f) "burp" upper radiator hose and add fluid as needed then close the upper valve; g) complete coolant tank fill until ca. 1" above midline. At this point if you are doing a fill/drain cycle repeat with a brief engine run then briefly run the engine and repeat. If on final fill in step e) add ca. 6.5-6.6 qts of straight HOAT and complete the fill with demineralized water; then once the system is sealed do 2-3 drive cycles from cold to hot to purge air from the system which will lower the level in the coolant tank a bit but generally not so much as to have to add coolant.
If you want to check for sediment in the system you can lightly back flush the heater core by pulling the inflow/outflow lines and using a garden hose at LOW pressure. There is no valve in that line so no need to have the heater "on" although there is no harm in doing so.