Allright, to get this out of the way:

So I've read the nooB guide a few times through, and trolled around here enough to know a few things about the sweet '05 Limited CRD with 85k miles I inherited from my wife, who got a new car.
The problem is that I know about nothing diesel, and the last time I worked on a car was an old 1972 VW Thing that I drove from Oregon to the Guatemalan border and back over 3 months. I guess that's two problems. The third is that I can't see any pictures or graphics posted anywhere on this board, and cannot adjust because it's a work computer that I mostly use to access it on downtime. I guess the fourth problem is that the local garage where my wife has been taking the CRD doesn't seem to know diesel particularly well, and is unwilling to do anything outside OEM recommendations.
My job frequently takes me to some light off roading, frequently out of cellphone, so I'd like to have *some* confidence it won't break down in a remote area, or that I can fix a simple thing, but am by no means a gearhead (intended with utmost respect). I figure that I should get the timing belt replaced, then GDE it, Samco hose it, maybe buff up some glow plugs and fuel filters and heaters, and then get some OME suspension (not a riser, just the suspension to deal with the CRD weight - I won't tow much over a few hundred pounds once or twice a year). I've only learned that much from this board, and I'm concerned that these things are out of my league. That said, I do want to learn how to clean the MAP, change the fuel and air filters, and change the oil and filters myself. Anything that requires a torque wrench I leave to professionals.
So I've read through the rec'd mechanics, and Jason at Diesel Repair and Performance down in Parker seems like a good bet, even though it's 40 minutes (in good traffic) away. What I'd really like is someone who knows the CRD to help me fix it up, and show me how to do some of this stuff right. I'm not expecting charity or pro bono work, just someone who knows how to do this and willing to show me how.
Do you have any recommendations or advice?