Thought I'd update this in case anyone was interested... I ended up putting the Jeep in the garage for them to get the issue sorted whatever it was. It went into the garage on 5th Jan, and by this point it was having some problems starting as well (can you guess where this is going). So they took the head off and sent it for testing, and it failed miserably. There was an internal crack which could not be repaired, so a 'new' head was needed, as well as a new starter motor and all the other bits of kit they replace when doing the head (water pump, belt etc). The garage rang me once they knew the head had failed the test and told me the revised repair bill would be about £2900, so I made the decision to stop there and scrap my beloved Jeep
as it just wasn't worth it as the Jeep was worth less than that. I managed to sell it on eBay to someone who collects Jeep (all the way from Wales!) and got almost enough for it to cover the garage bill for the work they did so far (removing the head and testing it).
So that is the end of my love affair with the Jeep, I couldn't risk buying another one that might have the same problems (with the money I had I would have been buying another the same age with same mileage) so I have ended up with a Ford Fiesta (it is growing on me) and I bought a little lorry to transport my horse in as I no longer have a car to tow with.