It's a red light to me when people try to sell vehicles with obvious issues and try to downplay it. Dripping fluid must come from somewhere so would have to be replenished unless it's diesel which you'd easily smell from 20 paces.
The fact that he continues to drive it despite this may indicate that it's not been looked after very well in the time he's owned it.
Fluid around the radiator is probably tranny fluid from the hose going into the cooler. This is a common problem area. You should see the red through the dirt.
Not sure how the crank is sealed at the front but any leakage there and you can say goodbye to the timing belt in short order so I think you can rule that out.
Oil residue on the engine could be spillage from filling, injector or return hose leaking diesel, oil mist from the CAC hoses which would appear in the vicinity of the turbo. The exact location may help pinpoint the most likely source.
Take a look at this for the code taking note of the comment regarding lack of power:
viewtopic.php?f=5&t=46532The current owner may have simply disturbed the sensor when replacing the air filter?
For the lag, is the problem you describe lack of power from the engine or delayed kickdown? Power form the engine is probably related to the pressure sensor. Delayed kickdown may be a symptom of low fluid - drip drip drip!
Low mileage for age and no obvious major issues but with a couple of minor issues that need addressed, I'm guessing it's in the $7K-$8K range if he can prove conclusively that the 100K service was done. If not then knock $1.5K off. You can play the pressure sensor two ways, for peace of mind try to address it before buying or take a gamble that this is the problem and use it as a negotiating point.