found it
I didn't torque the thermostat bolts to the right spec at 21 ftlbs, probably did 21 inlbs because it was leaking around the thermostat housing. I snugged up the bolts a little since I am without a torque wrench right now and that stopped the scary drip trail I was leaving everywhere I went.
Its way dark out and I was working with a led light. I took the air box out of the way to see in there better and I have a crack in the air hose right at the turbo inlet
. I must have caused that putting the air box back in after the belt and pump job. That has to be very risky for sucking in who knows what unfiltered. Not sure if one of those is to be had local but it is now the priority item. I am about 500 miles from home so if I have to I will run with the crack until I get there, thought about duct tape or a big piece of shrink tube to limp on in with.
Thanks for the suggestions on where to look!