About the buzzing vacuum solenoid...asked partner to write up what happened next:
"Yesterday, the Vacuum Modulator Valve(VMV) was what was buzzing. I removed it from it's bracket and flipped it over to check it's electrical connection. When I replaced it, it quit buzzing and the A/C quit working.
Today, with the engine off, I tapped the bottom of it firmly on it's bracket(The purple arrow), than replaced it, and started the engine.
The A/C started working once more, with a vent temperature of 55°F on full cold & fan on high. Oddly, the engine seems to be running smoother than before!?!?"
So, yay! We didn't find any evidence of bad wires or hoses. Geordi pointed us in the direction of the vacuum system diagram...involves turbo, brakes and AC. Hmmm...engine running rough intermittently, brief brake warning light, AC goes out but comes back on with messed with.
I think we have a candidate! Will go ahead and replace the solenoid when we're going to be in one place long enough to order it!
And the alternator was warrantied by AutoZone, so partner replaced it today! Running great! Big thanks to Geordi and all the people on Lostjeeps who left precious helpful threads on these topics!