mass-hole wrote:
I did figure out that pin 7 on the plug in the back for light stalk is for the high beam. unfortunately the lightbar relay is sending power back through the trigger wire so that the high beams do not turn off with the stalk. You have to pull power from the relay to get the highs and the light bar to turn off.
As others suggested, tap into high beam wire under hood, add a fuse, power relay, and a cutout switch on dash so you can deactivate the light bar when you do not wish for it to come on with the high beams.
I have this wiring setup on my Jeep CRD and it works perfectly!!!
Here is a wiring diagram, in your case the driving lights will be your light bar:

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