the point of the relay is to prevent having that much current running through the firewall and into your dash. If you really want to eliminate the relay, you'll need to figure out what the max draw is for the lights, then make sure both the switch and the wiring itself can handle it. You'll probably want to overestimate, too, just to make sure. That'll probably put you in 12 gauge wires, coming both into and out of your cab. I personally think a relay is a much nicer way to do it, since you can leave all the high-power stuff outside and just run the signal switch line in to the dash.
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Jeff 2005 Jeep Liberty Renegade
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