You should be fine to leave it off for all your surface street driving. I'm still surprised that turning your OD off solves the problem for you. For me, I really do have to put it in 2nd to keep it from acting like such a piece of crap. Mine can't decide between 2nd & 3rd.
I wish we'd bought a 5-speed. None of this crap and better mileage, too.
Regarding the 42RLE, I just read on allpar that Chrysler will continue to use it because it's cheap. I won't be interested in replacing the KJ with a KK until they 3.7L is replaced with a 4.0L phoenix engine *and* the 42RLE is replaced with something less craptastic. If both of those things don't happen, then I guess I'll be checking out a JKL or the newly re-designed FJC come 2011. I hope the next FJC looks less like a duck so it can be a viable option. Whenever I see a blue one, I picture Billy Madison... "I drew the duck blue because to be honest I never saw a blue duck and I wanted to see what a blue duck would look like. That's quacktastic!" [end tangent]
http://www.allpar.com/model/upcoming.html (Scroll down to "Conventional Automatics.")