ALL 4 cyl KJ's got 4.10's, IIRC, so a 5 spd 4 popper may have had 4.10's.
As very few people are switching to 4.10's without adding taller tires that drops the final drive ratio back down, 4.10's and stock tires with a 6spd probably is a pretty rare thing. IF you did not change tires your RPM at 65 MPH would go from 2,193 RPM to 2,513 RPM's, hardly a huge difference. If you went to the ever popular 245/75/16's, the RPM # changes to 2,435. If you think you can't run your 3.7L at 2,500 RPM's all day, be sure you don't ever go over 50 MPH.
Yeah, the T18, 435, etc... are all such weak trannies they break stuff internally constanty...

manuals are, as a rule, stouter than an auto and suffer less from water damage or F-ed computer control & obvioulsy no convertor/lock-up issues like an auto. Again, auto's rock so hard that you constantly see them in OTR trucks, pro stock drag racers, earth moving machinary...

Drive train shock is controled by the driver. The key word there is DRIVER. Some people with no skill or finesse probably can't control themselves or their rigs. They are better off with slush boxes.

At least that " an auto makes 2.5 times more torque than a stick" stuff went away....
I know of no one breaking a 6spd in a KJ. I have power shifted and dumped the clutch on mine dozens of times w/o issues. I have read of many issues with the auto's, including water issues. I have a ton of off-road experience with 727's, the 45's granddaddy. Some little bit with a 518. Of course, some people can tear up an anvil, so actual mileage may vary.