Thanks Tommud...I didn't reply to this because I thought it over a very very long time. And your right...ive ridden in lowerred cars with crappy springs and struts and they just suck. I dont want to ruin my Jeep with that bouncy bad ride. Im just gonna hold off on all that and do the clevis lift for now and the 245/70s and see if that works for me.
looks like 3 conduit nuts in the front and one top isolator in the back will give an even little lift from what ive seen on here.
Gonna go with either the General Grabber AT2 or the BFG AT T/A KOs
The BFs look way way cooler...just dont know if they are worth almost double the cost

thanks to everyone who helped me with the decision.