I voted for the three lights, Even though if you got the cash, get the three lights and the Mopar fogs, I like how the fogs look in the grill..
And not many people have the three lights, Be Different
I'm not too crazy about the bar you posted, but if you have someone making it for you maybe you can change it a little, I like this one;
http://www.quadratec.com/products/12110_411.htmI'm not saying put it on the hood but I do like the look of it better than coming out from under the bumper. Or for forty bucks just buy it and mount it to the metal under the plastic on the bumper. And you can always do what I did when you want more lights (
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