Well i was planning on testing the u joints like Tommud said so i started it this morning and went on driving the sound kept on getting louder but i decided that it could be safe to go on the freeway just long enough to get to work and see if the joint was burning by then or what.
25Km later i was pulling over in the parking when someone screamed stop your wheel is loose then i went out the libby and checked the lug nuts with my hands and 4 came off just by touching them
so now i know where the sound was coming from, a F#@$% guy must have tried to steal the whole darn wheel off my parked car
and thank god i made it without the wheel coming off on the highway