here's a few tips to help get it below 3 as quick as possible
do the tuning with the vehicle off, alternator interference can drasticly raise swr on an untuned antenna but do it with the doors and rear hatch closed as if you were driving, when I was doin mine I'd just jump in the passenger seat and close the door
you also need to be as far away from buildings and overhanging trees as possible, if you do it next to your house your SWR will be super high and as soon as you move away from the house your antenna won't be tuned anymore - parking lots or something work good , a good 20-30 feet away from obstructions is usually good enough
antenna mistakes from my own recent retardation

, the nylon washer goes between the antenna and the mount, not between the coax and the mount
if you have a multimeter you can check for continuity (connection) between outside ring of the coax and the mount , between your mount and ground (the gold colored latches on the door jambs work good enough to test grounding)
if you take the antenna off the mount, you shouldn't have continuity between the antenna stud and the mount or ground
with the antenna on you shouldnt have continuity between the metal screw part of the antenna and the ground
with the radio side of the coax off, you shouldn't have continuity between the center stud and the ground, and should have continuity between the outer ring and ground
what type antenna are you using?
if Ch1 SWR is lower than CH40 SWR your antenna is too long and the tuner screw needs to be turned down closer to the tip
if its the other way around then it's too short and needs to be screwed out
if its super high on BOTH ch1 and ch40 then you've got a bad coax or an improper mounting configuration