WWDiesel wrote:
EGR cooler leak will not leak coolant into motor oil period, only into intake or to outside of motor.
Engine oil cooler leaks normally will leak engine oil into the cooling system as engine oil pressure is 3 or 4 times higher that what the coolant pressure runs.
As PAP stated, most likely a leaking head gasket is the source of coolant leaking into your engine oil...
Run a cooling system leak down test. Most good shops know how to do this...

Understood. I did a leak down test a while ago when I first suspected the head gasket and did another at jiffy lube yesterday with the tech, both were negative. Did a coolant flush/swap and what came out was extremely clean. I've never once experienced pressure build up in the overflow tank.
Are you positive it can't seep into the engine from the oil cooler while it's off?
Any other ideas? I had the timing belt, water pump replaced @ 105k. (at 128k now). No external leaks anywhere.
I sincerely appreciate your help guys. I'm about at my wits end with this....