As to the small rubber hoses, you can just use some fuel line of the correct size.
the larger rubber hose going to and from the cooler is 5/8 heater hose.
But like already suggested, your best bet is to get rid of the EGR crap all together.
You can cap off the the EGR feed tube by installing a blank off plate on the end of the tube.
Once you have it blanked off, you can totally remove all the EGR coolant hoses.
See this:>
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