throwout bearing - if you replace it, replace pilot at same time that's just standard procedure since the process to replace one or the other pretty much requires the same steps and they're cheap enough there's really no reason not to replace them
gearoil = chrysler synchromesh - i think Pennzoil synchromesh has the 9224 stamp - i usually replace straight drive gear oil same time i replace transfercase juice bout every 15k "adios contaminos"
http://www.howstuffinmycarworks.com/How ... works.htmlshould help you understand throwout's, the slave, etc
the slaves on the side of the transmission, follow the hydrollic line down to it, pull the rubber grommet back and check for fluid behind the grommet
the clutch and slave come pre-assembled with tubing and everything and prefilled
however I have seen bleed-able slaves on the replacement parts shelves for the 6 speed lately for between 40-70 bucks