My fiance

lil black liberty · **Posted:** Mon Feb 16, 2009 9:48 pm

So.. my fiance called off the wedding and broke up with me.. seems like she has been cheating on me for the past month or so. I'm heartbroken especially since her friend told me all of this on valentine's day...

JeepinJarhead03 · **Posted:** Mon Feb 16, 2009 9:50 pm

youch

lil black liberty · **Posted:** Mon Feb 16, 2009 9:51 pm

Yeah, I don't care anymore... I'm tired of all the lies and games and being hurt...

tommudd · **Posted:** Mon Feb 16, 2009 10:04 pm

From an old man whose bought way too many houses :lol:

there are prettier ones, smarter ones, richer ones and lot better overall ones just waiting out there. You may have many "loves" over the years and you will gain some knowledge from each of them, use it like a college education, you learn as much, and it costs just as much or more.

You're just a young one yet enjoy life to the fullest :wink:

JeepinJarhead03 · **Posted:** Mon Feb 16, 2009 10:04 pm

treat yourself and your jeep to something nice

jsc7002 · **Posted:** Mon Feb 16, 2009 10:28 pm

sorry to hear about that man thats no good, I know how you feel though my girlfriend broke up with me a couple months ago. its no fun, but life goes on.

zzack92 · **Joined:** Mon Jul 28, 2008 6:50 pm **Posts:** 371

they are!

BMR · **Posted:** Mon Feb 16, 2009 11:50 pm

Man, that sucks.. I'm sorry for you dude...

Saw this not too long ago:

501 · **Posted:** Mon Feb 16, 2009 11:53 pm

Hey your lucky, mines been with me for 26 years and won't go away no matter how hard I try to talk her into it! Talk about evil!!!

Seriously though, hang in there, you'll find one that no matter what, she'll stick by your side and you'll forget all about good old whats-her-name.

See, I forgot her name already!!

Tokyojoe · **Posted:** Mon Feb 16, 2009 11:54 pm

Did you get you rring back? She broke up with you. You have rights to it. Sell it and buy yourself some awesome aftermarket stuff for your KJ.

One thing....do not, soak your sorrows in booze or other substances. You will hurt for awhile. It is natural but it wears off. Do not jump on the gravy train immediately. That becomes a big mistake. Just hang out with your best buds, talk abou it with family, friends, and your religious leader, like a pastor (if you have one). You will find many better women out there. Whatever you do, do not go back to her and beg or plead for her to take you back.

oddball · **Posted:** Tue Feb 17, 2009 12:05 am

tommudd wrote:

From an old man whose bought way too many houses :lol:

there are prettier ones, smarter ones, richer ones and lot better overall ones just waiting out there. You may have many "loves" over the years and you will gain some knowledge from each of them, use it like a college education, you learn as much, and it costs just as much or more.

You're just a young one yet enjoy life to the fullest :wink:

Tokyojoe wrote:

One thing....do not, soak your sorrows in booze or other substances. You will hurt for awhile. It is natural but it wears off. Do not jump on the gravy train immediately. That becomes a big mistake. Just hang out with your best buds, talk abou it with family, friends, and your religious leader, like a pastor (if you have one). You will find many better women out there. Whatever you do, do not go back to her and beg or plead for her to take you back.

If you do anything, take the advice from these two guys. They're both right.

About the only thing I can add is that we've all been where you are right now. But know two things, one; not all girls are evil, and two; the only time it hurts worse is when their life is cut short. Trust me.

All the best,
oddball.

Burchie · **Posted:** Tue Feb 17, 2009 12:16 am

Just go out and buy that new KK right now. That will make you fell better.

lil black liberty · **Posted:** Tue Feb 17, 2009 12:18 am

Yeah only until the payment hits

Thanks guys... I don't know what I'd do without these forums... but apparently the girl who told me my girl was cheating on me. Is her best friend well I talked to my fiance and she said no none of that happened... So I am thinking my girl could be lying... but her friend could be lying.. I don't know what to do...gawh..

Burchie · **Posted:** Tue Feb 17, 2009 12:24 am

lil black liberty wrote:

... but apparently the girl who told me my girl was cheating on me. Is her best friend well I talked to my fiance and she said no none of that happened... So I am thinking my girl could be lying... but her friend could be lying.. I don't know what to do...gawh..

Sounds like a three some in the works here.

did I say that out loud? :oops:

Diggerfreek · **Posted:** Tue Feb 17, 2009 12:24 am

Burchie wrote:

Just go out and buy that new KK right now. That will make you fell better.

Burchie must have read my mind

lil black liberty · **Posted:** Tue Feb 17, 2009 12:29 am

Well ok.. let me tell the whole story... I told her that I wanted to be married before I turn 22 next Nov... not this Nov but next... and she felt like I was giving her a deadline if we didn't get married that I'd kick her to the curb... well so she got pissed at me and began to ignore me.. Then her friend preceded to steal her phone and call me and tell me that she was wondering if I was doing ok because she was told that Laira (my girl) and I had broken up and that the wedding was off.. At this point I was pissed and said no bullpoop it ain't she ain't told me that.. well she (Britney) the other girl my girls BFF told me that she said she did and that she was cheating on me with a guy named Charles... so... at this point I became enraged and hacked into her email... I know I'm a bad guy... but I wanted to see if she had sent this clown an email and yeah she did. but she said in the email that she was home, he responded via txt that he was glad she was home and what was up... she never responded because she fell asleep and he said baby are you awake.. So.. now I'm in a pickle A: cuz I hacked my girls email... B: I don't know if she is cheating on me and C: I really love this girl and she ain't lied to me yet, but why would her BFF do that to me?

Inc · **Posted:** Tue Feb 17, 2009 12:41 am

How old are these girls?

Burchie · **Posted:** Tue Feb 17, 2009 12:43 am

lil black liberty wrote:

Well ok.. let me tell the whole story... **** but why would her BFF do that to me?

This is why I waited until I was 36 before I got married. Took some time to get all the jokers out of my life.

durangotang · **Posted:** Tue Feb 17, 2009 12:44 am

Diggerfreek · **Posted:** Tue Feb 17, 2009 1:01 am

man, all I can say is what a mess

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