I have not looked at your video but it has been mentioned it looked like it was going to shift when you stopped recording. It's very hard to determine when these transmissions are doing what. With your transmission fluid at operating temperature determine for us as near as possible the exact engine RPMS at as near as possible to a steady 60 mph from a complete stop not going over 60 mph according to your speedometer.
But regardless of what you think about the accurcy of your speedometer compared to your GPS or tire size your shift points will be according to your SPEEDOMETER in the late fifties or early sixties. The TCM has no idea of your actual speed just what it's been told by the onboard speed sensor. It's not rocket science

Another way is to find someone with a vag-com setup with CAN capability running the current software to read the part numbers of your ECM and TCM and the last two positions that are alpha charectors tell you the flash level. Then look at the chart in the TECH section. You can't depend on what tags dealers did or did not put on them. Adding to the confusion is when dealers were replacing torque converters and flashing computers on a weekly basis for many owners many TCM's locked up during the long flash time and needed to be replaced

So some became gun shy and started avoiding flashing them. That problem turned out to be cause by the battery voltage dropping below a certain level during the flash. The December 06 copy of the F37 instructions I have says to keep a battery charger connected during the flashing

UPDATE: I just went for a ride in the snow and rush hour traffic for you

So if you do as I mentioned above your RPM's will be either 1700 or 1900 at 60 per the speedometer. If you you get 1700 rpms then you have NOT been F37 flashed

But if you get 1900 you have been

Read this part carefully, mine has had the f37 flash and with that flash it's possible to go to 62-64 so it does the final shift then slow back down to 60 and get 1700 rpms like one that does not have the flash. Any lower then 60 a f37 flashed tcm will down shift and the rpms will go back up.
Joe