I can tell you how I and my son (stoutdog) did ours and add that nothing melted or blew up but the best thing to do is just go to
http://www.greendieselengineering.com/f ... st/76.page and check out the picture. The plug on the driver side operates the heating element and is the one you need to replace. The plug on the passenger side gets reused in the new filter head unit. I know the colors don't match so we just hooked things up based on wire size (thick to thick and thin to thin) and yes the extra wire is just that, extra. Per the picture we used marine grade butt connectors with built in heat shrink tubing rather than going the solder and heat shrink tubing route.