hgrimberg,
While a cracked flywheel is something that is odd for a an SUV or smaller vehicle at 60,000 miles, I personally am not surprised if you have a Jeep with a cracked flywheel at low mileage.
Not sure how much reading you've done here at the CRD forum, but a thorough look-around should indicate that Jeep / Chrysler dropped the ball big time, in a number of different areas, for their CRD's. A number of us love our CRD's and are gluttons for punishment.
Personally, I just had to get $4000 worth of work done on the Jeep, because of a Turbo Charger failure at 56,000 miles. My Jeep went into the shop on February 22nd, and is still there, due to problems with getting parts from MOPAR / Chrysler.
My advice would be to try to research this site and talk to people about what might be the cause of flywheel crack, before you have your mechanic install a new one, because you might end up cracking the new one, or worse.
I have read a lot about Transmission and Torque Converter problems, so, you might want to try to talk to some of the more knowledgable people on the forum about these things. I would say, whatever you do, don't rush through this. Get information from CRD specialists before you proceed.
The one flywheel related problem that I can comment on, which is one of the fixes currently going on with my Liberty, is the replacement of the Flywheel hub. I'm not sure about the Cherokee, but I know that generally, high RPM activity can loosen the flywheel hub bolts and cause problems. Not sure if this relates to your problem.
In terms of looking for parts online, you can start with calling any number of the online MOPAR sources.
And while I've heard conflicting reports, if you have problems with Chyrsler / MOPAR, you can try VM Motori:
Call: Diana Dupuie
VM Motori North America
1187, Centre Drive Auburn Hills
Detroit, Michigan 48326
eMail:ddupuie@vm-na.com
Phone: 248-977-5901
At the minimum, maybe they can point you in the right direction.
I hope you have better luck than I did getting your hands on parts. It's been a nightmare recently.