No, you do not need to use Mopar oil.. They were just wanting to make a sell..
I believe royal purple also comes with the friction modifier already in it so if you have a limited slip you are good to go. Read on the bottle to make sure it has the friction modifier in it if you do infact have a limited slip
The gear oil should of been done at 30k and 60k at least. I did mine at 12k and again at 18k when I put my locker in. Ill do it again at 30k along with the tranny and tcase. Ill check the front diff and change it out if needed, I doubt it will need it though.
Sometimes when maintenance like this isnt done, it will show up in the long run. It mostly depends on how the Jeep was used though. If it was a road queen, its ok to not do things like the gear oil for alittle while longer. 80k is just a tad to long though.

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