Since my driving habits are almost exactly like yours, I'll recommend what i have...I love these AT's and they perform fantastic in all weather, and really shine in the ice, wet and snow. They look aggressive, they have a nice square AT shoulder, and they have deep aggressive treads with probably more siping than any tire around. Nokian Vatiiva ATs in 245/70/16 with zero rub, no trimming or pounding on an unlifted stock suspension 03 KJ. some pics for ya:
They have almost the same tread pattern as Dueler Revo's but cost about $50 less per tire. Not too heavy, almost 40 pounds less per tire than KO's

and pretty darn reasonable on the bank account. I've had these now through one winter (since last September) and I will be buying these over and over again for my rides. Great stuff!!!!
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2003 Silver Sport - Debadged
245/75/R16 DuraTracs
Cragar Soft 8s
OME Coils & Front Shocks, Bilstein Rear Shocks - Muddified Lift
JBA 4.5 UCA
K&N CAI
MagnaFlow Exhaust
Rola Vortex Rack
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