First I don't think anyone is really criticizing you at all, in the first post you stated "I hope you can help me out " which is what we have been trying to do. Offer suggestions etc as to what may or may not be the problem. 99% of us on here use the Liberty daily so we understand that its your DD and are getting upset with replacing the CV boots, I wouldn't have over 110,000 on mine if it wasn't a DD!
Questions.....
Is where the grease has been coming out the same place/area each time?
Have you noticed anything on or around that area on your jeep that may contribute to the torn/leaking boot ( besides the lift) anything loose, hanging down etc.
If it was mine I would examine everything very closely even turning the wheels back and forth to see if anything at all comes in contact with the boot , jacking up one side then the other, trying to see if there is extra binding somewhere when you flex it one way or the other.
It may in fact be something to do with the lift but to say thats positively what it is and that everyone should be having the same problem and not many if any are then ???????
I know none of the above may help but it's where I would start to look
Tom