liberty2.8 wrote:
Thanks for the info. I thought maybe something was wrong with my settings. calcrd, I did try your suggestion but it didn't seem to work on my end. I have one I sent last month that is still in my outbox.

Depending on how active the member is it may take that long or longer. Might check and see when their last post was; just find any post by the user, click on their profile button and on that page there is a link to see all of their posts from the most recent back to the beginning.
EDIT: you can also get to their profile by going to your outbox and clicking on their user name (might be faster than hunting for a post).