Castnblast.
PLEASE NOTE the top post in the tech section. It's not for questions!!!
I just spent 2 minutes and found this write up that answers all your questions.
http://www.auerbach.ca/kj/lift_pump/Dusting off the cob webs this is how many got the pins to install the intank lift pump.
The last harness, from under the seat to the tank, is longer on the CRD's and is different then a gasser. In addition the 05 and 06 CRD cables are different because the 06 has ESP and 05 has a sensor in the differential. So it was determined there was no factory cable to "plug n play". The common procedure many used was to buy a cable and use the ends to get the pins they needed. With the intank there were 2 pins needed at the tank and one under the seat.
Those who did the install using parts of a new cable then had spare wire leads with pins on the ends that they mailed to others.
I think there's a good write up on the procedure in the CRD TEch section
Does this make sence? So you have a couple of choices. Go to a junk yard and get cable with the correct gender plug and use what you need. Or do as Smoken Joe and Salty Dog suggested.