Hi Boomerang, I'm no expert in these things, but here are some ideas.
1) In my '08 the power windows and radio keep working for about a minute after I turn it off, or until I open a door. Maybe your '06 is designed like that too? If you've owned it for a good while and you know this isn't it, sorry for the silly suggestion...
2) From what I've read, plain copper plugs work best for these Jeeps. I'm curious that you got the random misfire code, not the code for misfire in that one specific cylinder that you suspect might be bad. I would try replacing the plugs again with copper, and keeping an eye on that cylinder in the future. You might also try cleaning out the injectors with Lucas Oil injector cleaner or Seafoam in the next tank. These suggestions are pretty inexpensive and not too time-consuming. If they don't fix the problem, you won't be out that much money, and you can still enjoy most of your fishing weekend.
How often do you have to add coolant? Your hypothesis about the head gasket leaking into that one cylinder sounds plausible. Hopefully, it's not really doing that, especially at 40K! In my Jeep the OEM coolant is red, not green. But copper turns green when it oxidizes. Unless you have green coolant, I don't know if the green on the old copper plug would be coolant residue or just oxidation. The physical damage to the plug is a bit worrying, though.

Do you know if the new platinum plug has been damaged like that, too?
Sorry the Jeep is having fits. It's frustrating!
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