I just talked to my local transmission expert today about this very problem. It has happened to me about a dozen times and only after cranking up in the parking lot at work and driving about 100 feet and applying the brakes. It shutters and unless you are quick enough to shift into neutral, it will stall the motor completely!
I do not think the drain back issue is the problem as I crank in neutral and let run for several minutes before driving off and it engages just fine and pulls and feels normal.
My transmission guy told me these transmission were notorious for having a weak or worn oil pump. We talked about planning a TC replacement either a Suncoast or Euro in the spring and he said he would replace the pump at the same time and cure the shutter problem. It will scare you if you do not know what is happening!

I plan to service the trans very soon and I will replace the drain back valve while I am in there and see if it cures the shutter issue....

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