OME 927s will lift the KJ 2.5 inches ( other posts you have read also include clevis lift and top plate to reach 3.5 inches
OME 927s would work well with the ARB alone, add a winch and I'd go 790s ( I had a ARB on mine for 8 years and ran 927s for 100,000 then went to the 790s for 60,000 then the JBA adjustable coilovers )
But 927s are rated at 400 lbs , stock is 310, 790s are 500 lb springs and you'll know they are heavy duty for sure
But with that bumper I would not go any less than the 927s
NOW with that said the Ironman makes a good spring which I've also tested and ran for a while, their HD spring will work with the ARB and gives you 2.25 inches of lift
This is also assuming you have a gasser and not a CRD
Any upgrades I would also do the rear since the springs and shocks have to be toast as well
Bilstein makes a good shock , Ironman are a little bit longer for front shocks than Bilstein or OME
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