So I got it out today, finally. That top forward nut is a real bear but it can be done with care and patience and a gallon of penetrating fluid. Also an investment in some quality low profile tools. I went to lowes and bought the kobalt "extreme access" 1/4" drive sockets and a 13mm low profile ratcheting box end. These were by far the most useful tools. I also bought a bunch of 1/2" drive breaker bar sized stuff and never got to use them, there is just no room for big stuff. I worked at it from below as much as from above and avoided hammering on the handle to break it loose, but it was tempting. The two bottom nuts came out easily enough from below, you can lie underneath with your legs sticking out the passenger side and reach your arm up from below to access those two. You have to run your arm up along next to the exhaust downpipe. using a low profile socket or ratcheting box end that lets the stud go through the hole in the middle is super helpful. Also the socket or box end has to be thin around the outside of the ratcheting part or else you can't get it next to the turbo body. The sockets should also have fine tooth ratcheting mechanism because there is not a lot of room to swing the handle. For that last top forward one, I considered draining the radiator and removing the bundle of heater hoses in front to get more access/leverage to the last nut, but that looked like its whole own can of worms. So in the end I got my low profile 1/4" 13mm socket on it tight from the bottom and then came around the front of the grill reached through the bundle of heater hoses, and just hung on it and it finally broke free.
The part that went the worst for me is I stripped the hex head on one of the screws holding the drain line into the bottom of the turbo. The down side of the maximum access tools is that they are supposedly "metric or SAE" but I think they are more likely to strip than traditional hex sockets if its not perfectly straight on the hex head. That drain makes a bend right into where your hand wants to go if you use the extension included with the 1/4" drive kit, and you think the socket is on tight but its really slightly angled. Luckily there was still enough shape that I could grab it with a traditional socket.
Someone asked for some pictures. I am not sure how helpful these are, but, here you go:
turbo shaped hole from above:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B8vb7H ... sp=sharingturbo shaped hole from below. Still need to go buy a 22mm wrench to get the engine side of the oil supply line off.
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B8vb7H ... sp=sharingold and new turbos. Pretty sure the old one should not rattle when I shake it ...
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B8vb7H ... sp=sharingold turbo screw hole broke when I tried to tighten the heat shield down too tight. I guess its just cast aluminum so I shouldn't hork it down as much.
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B8vb7H ... sp=sharing