The problem with running two way dash and two way door speaker is that there are two ways to wire them and neither is ideal. In series you get 8 ohms which drops your power output from you radio, in parallel you get 2 ohms which will over load the radio. Although you might be able to get away with putting a bass blocker on the dash speaker and wire the door and dash speakers in parallel. This way at low frequencies the radio is only seeing the 4 ohm load, but at higher frequencies it will see the parallel combination. This is basically how the factory system is set up. So to answer your question, yes you can put a 2 way in the dash and the door, but it is not ideal. And, I would bet that you will have do some modification to get the infinity 3.5s to fit in the dash.
My first choice would be component set with tweet in dash and mid bass in doors. (then add a single sub to improve bass response if needed)
Second would be 2 way in doors only. (then add a single sub to improve bass response if needed)
Third would be 2 ways in dash and doors, but with bass blocker in line with the dash speakers. (then add a single sub to improve bass response if needed)
You won't find a tweeter that will be a direct replacement for the factory. But all you have to do is make an adapter plate out of ABS that is the same size as the factory speaker and mount the aftermarket tweet in the plate. Here is a link to the ABS
http://www.cardomain.com/item/SOUIECABS18