Groo,
You most certainly should not be "flamed" for providing "facts" from your own experience. Speaking of such, the bottom line is that only since people have been putting TCs in their "improved" KJ CRDs (with increased power, IM SII, GDE HOT, etc.) that include the stronger dampener springs as introduced with the "euro" TC, have we seen an apparent complete and final end to the dreaded KJ CRD "shudder".
While a variety of other approaches to reduce the "problem" may have yielded improvement in specific cases, the stiffer springs were the key all along. Unfortuately, it sounds like you have already tried just about everything (edit, Dr. Tranny?) except replacing the TC with one with the stronger springs. I am not aware of a single reported incident of "shudder" with either the "euro" (now standard OEM replacement) TC or a Suncoast TC since they cut into a "euro" TC and started adding similar springs to the units they have been shipping.
See:
viewtopic.php?f=5&t=51892&hilit=Suncoast (courtesy of Warp)
If anyone has had shudder with either of these relatively new to the game units, I would like to know.
Personally, I wish I had the money to replace my "euro" TC with a new Suncoast to see if the extra weight smooths out the vibration under 50 MPH with the GDE TCM tune. The tune is great for the 3-4 MPG improvement, but the engine is pretty rough under 1800 RPM. Maybe the Suncoast could help with this.
Now, I guess it's time to reach for the fire extinguisher.
DOC