I lifted mine with Rocky Road Outfitters, Rockfather 1 it was a good kit overall with good directions however if you can afford it I would go at least with the Rockfather 2. They have kits for the CRD's and the 2 comes with full size rear springs instead of just spacers. Also I would recommend ordering their bump stop extensions if you do go with the Rockfather 1
http://www.rocky-road.com/kjrockfather.html Also I know I a lot of guys on here go with the Frankenlift, I've never bought or installed one so I can't give you to much info on them but it sounds like a lot of guys like them (and if not I'm sure I'll be getting replies saying otherwise.)
I just realized after reading this you said you don't want a RRO but I thought I would leave the post since over all in my opinion it was a good kit.