I’ve been using the hemi TCM for a few years now.
And all the above is true.
However, once you get used to it’s shift characteristics it’s manageable.
For instance, if you’re cruising at 70 mph and want to make a move to pass someone, don’t just mash the throttle because it’ll downshift all the way to 3rd.
Instead, slowly roll into the throttle and it will hold 5th gear.
Also, get used to switching the overdrive on and off.
When towing you’re gonna spend most of time with OD-off. Especially over hilly terrain.
It’ll drive just fine, towing, at 55-60 mph with OD-off.
Over long flat terrain you can turn OD back on.
Highway driving while towing is just like off-roading. Read the terrain. Pick your line. Maneuver safely. Speed will likely get you killed.
All that said, I do most of my driving over flat terrain and rarely tow
